well it did update i guess it could be that and i managed to get it working yesterday and when i went on it today i went onto my world and i noticed that it was in recipe mode i tried reverting it into cheat mode but it did not work, so i went into the NEI.cfg in notepad checked it all seemed fine the recipe mode said it was false i was baffled at that point which concluded me into starting this.
also i just decided to go straight through the technic launcher folder into technicssp and take a look through configs for the NEI.cfg file and i fount it had gone back to the original file which says that recipe mode is locked etc. i am seeing if this will revert the problem, ill have the answer soon
i fount the problem i did not check the file when going from .techniclauncher, what i did is search for the file *derp*