So I posted over at Bukkit and they told me to come here.
I have a custom built computer
FX-8150 @4GHz
16GB 1600MHz RAM
Radeon HD 7970 3GB
120 GB SSD
Windows 8 64BIT
Java 7 64BIT
I am running a Tekkit Server using XMSM to manage it. I live in college dorms and so the ports aren't right so I am using a program called Evolve (Hamachi like) to tunnel through. I have 55ms ping 12Mb/s down 15Mb/s up. I am using ComandsEX, PermissionsEX, NoLag, SafeCreeper, and World Edit in addition to all the Tekkit stuff included.
So my problem is that I am currently at my parent's house over Thanksgiving (yes their computer is good and so is there internet) and I can connect but there is horrible lag. World wont load, blocks will place but not show, and pressure plates for doors wont work. I have no idea why it is doing this. Connecting locally the server works ok however when my friends connect they seem to have some problems although not as much as I am having here. Really I am looking for some way to speed up the server.
Perhaps I need to edit the NoLag config? I don't think it is Evolve. It is supposed to be like a gaming grade version of Hamachi. There are only 3 users that play. I have the most technology running. I have a small factory and sorting facility but that should be all.