i let the dogs out

There are numerous folders and many folders with the name "mods". Also I wish I knew what I was doing D: Also, I can't do OP commands! OIFJDFSIOJFDSKLW. This is really confusing, haha.

Hey guys, me and my friend wanted to play together on a server but noticed we couldn't get EE or other awesome mods onto vanilla servers, so I looked into tekkit and got the server running. However I really don't want a strain on my internet nor want all the mods that come with tekkit. The ones we want are Equivalent Exchage 2, Balkon's weaponmod, and Rei's minimap. And of course, Forge API to make the mods work together. So, any takers on helping me out? tyvm!