viper007bond resolved this. all you have to do (and im sorry for ripping it off) is download this .jar file ----> https://github.com/ForgeEssentials/...339d1f4fc0814a1d/lib/sqlite-jdbc.jar?raw=true
then, place the file in the lib folder inside your tekkit server area where it show all the neat spiffy stuff.
only in permissions. c++ is a great programing language, but there are so many bukkit permissions out there, and they are all different, but universally, if you want something off, its false, want something on, its true.
i have downloaded my own server for tekkit lite, and loaded it to its own folder. however when i first came into the world, i could destroy things, however could not place anything (crafting table or even dirt)
i checked in my server properties, and the game mode is 0 (survival)
is there something i am doing wrong?