My java is set to high priority. But i managed to solve the problem! i followed the instructions from this guys video:
especially the part with adding more virtual memory to my C: drive (but without the external flash memory) its set to 8099 - 20000MB(i have 60GB free space at my C: drive) and my tekkit WORKS LIKE A CHARM with 90 fps wherever i go. Allso Ive noticed the temperature drop of my laptop. The fan is spinning at "medium" speed not full as it did before. Runs more quiet.
This solution worked really great for me. I think it should be pinned on the forum or shared with others in any other way .
Thank you andrewdonshik and Burnout935 for your atention and help.