Hey, me too! Anyways, what i need is a "modpack" which people can just add to the launcher and connect to my server. And i need the server file which runs the modpack too. Hope that simplifies stuff.
(The reason why i dont want to install the mod itself is because it wouldnt work on my server without everyone else installing it... A simple click from the technic launcher would be simpler.)
PS i'm making a crusade server :D