I do now that WAS my problem. now i can get it to launch properly.
Looks like in extracts something fails and launches and crashes. My modded minecraft works fine, im just trying to do this so i can distribute much easier
Edit this is a error in configs that i can work out.
For those of you who have had about the first post please go to
http://www.technicpack.net/
and host the server there, it will give you a correct URL.