Please note that my server is WHITELISTED and I do not wish to disclose it to anybody, apart from those that I wish to join. You do not see major SMP whitelisted servers giving out their IP. This is to protect the server and make sure that those who are playing on it do not have to fear any sort of 'attacks' as such. I would be willing to go further into this from an IT professionals point of view but I won't. IF however you wish to further your knowledge in this area... please PM me and I would happily explain some things to you.
On another note... I did notice though that you are NOT a moderator! Do you gain satisfaction from trawling through Forums picking them apart wish that maybe one day, just one day, that you could be a mod and ACTUALLY have power (that you would totally abuse) just in an attempt to cover up your insecurities by pointing out tiny little details that in the real world, don't actually matter????
Regards
DuBnz
Server Owner