From the very limited information you've given us the only thing I can suggest is turn off the firewall on the box hosting the server as that may be blocking you. Once that is off if you can connect you need to find out why it is blocking you. If that doesn't work then from what you have said I can't help you without more info...
Also be careful of your attitude on here, people won't appreciate you getting snappy when you aren't even following the forum rules yourself