Can any Hexxit server admins help a brother out?

[trav]

I posted these in the server admin forum, but havent got a response yet. I am loathe to invite people to play on my server, without getting some of the basics sorted, and am hoping for some assistance. I would appreciate any help anyone can provide my noob self!!!

Links to my questions :

http://forums.technicpack.net/threads/errors-in-hexxit-server-log-no-additional-mods-plugins.47543/

and

http://forums.technicpack.net/threads/question-about-forgeessentials-and-hexxit-lag-mem.47538/

One of the posts first post actually links back to the 2nd for some clarification... so this is a sort of Inception help request.

[Minecraft lordz]

i can help with your noob self

[psumatt25]

Add me on skype if you want ill walk you through some issues-psumatt65

[Minecraft lordz]

i don't have skype

[Minecraft lordz]

Add me on skype if you want ill walk you through some issues-psumatt65

maybe i could join your server and you can chat with me