hey, i have had this happen on a server, more than once
2012-10-06 18:31:49 [iNFO] [WeaponMod] Properties file read succesfully!
java.lang.IllegalArgumentException: Slot 181 is already occupied by cpw.mods.iro
nchest.BlockIronChest@72cd429b when adding denoflionsx.items.waxBlock@1d008ff
that part of your error log shows what is causing it, you have two or more items that have duplicate block IDs in use
to fix it just modify the config files of any new mods to use open ids and the problem should be fixed
EDIT: from what i have seen when you get bootted with that error it means that one of the items with a duplicate ID is in your inventory, you can delete your character info off the server to fix it but you loose all your items. or you can have them track down the item(s) causing the issue, i once had it happen with a wooden axe