Please help im about to give up ive been pulling my hair out.

[Devistator952]

mor juice, lov juice

[David_Wolfe]

Try x3G s2G instead of 2 and 1. Seems to me you just ran out of memory.

Infact, try 4G and 3G just for the hell of it.

Make sure your friend is also using the required amount of memory, I don't know why but for some reason that affected me and a friend playing on lan as well.

EDIT

I'm sorry, I didn't see there was a 2nd page, and your huge-ass posts are making it kind of hard to track the real problems.

You are going to need more ram to actually play the game while hosting it, I'm afraid.