Do what you would in vanilla for a while. Then take a look at your book, and build some of the stuff in it. Then seek out danger and excitement! For the funny things you find in chests, too many to count, just look them up in NEI or at worst look for info on them online. Various semi-tricky/undocumented stuff I've found out:
* Legend gear quivers don't have the recipe in NEI, since it's the 0-arrow quiver there and it's the 1-arrow quiver you make. Just put leather in a V-shape with an arrow in it. Might want to use the Better Storage quiver anyway.
* For bombs (similar issue), leather in U-shape with bomb in middle.
* Many weapons have hold-right click charging effects of various sorts. Experiment.
* Scythes double your harvests.
* You can't cheese in dimensional doors dungeons now. If you dig through the roof/wall, scary new mob will spot you and pull you into limbo.
* You need a diamond pickaxe to mine meteors. Mining meteors underwater sucks, by the way.