ok personally i think having ImBernie as mod would be smart i like his creations and he has a good understanding of the tekkit mods. but its not up to me its up to claw.
imbernie your house gets greifed because you lacked common sense of putting your house farther away from spawn.... Also the ip isnt fake its just down every know and then also if a space is at the beginning or end of the ip it wont work.
ahem claw you forgot to reban poeple also i would keep server up for 8 days and if no crashes or idiotic things happen than make it permanant also i know why the greifing is happening people are mostlikly pissed
fears answer is for loacaly hosted servers btw and the way to increase your server itself is by paying for the extra ram i honestly cant figure out the problem because im not familliar with the host.