How can i add a mod to my hexxit server?

[sydneystunah]

So i wanted to add the mod Craft Guide to my server because its easy for me to find the crafting recipes and what an item is used for in a simple click and my friend has the mod added to her hexxit and so do i but when i put the mod inside the mod folder for the hexxit server and launched it it for some reason just go stuck at "loading NEI" and just doesn't load anymore.... if there's nothing i can do i guess ill deal without but if you guys know a way please help me thank you