"I don't care why things happen, just make them stop happening, I'm scared and confused. >" - You
Cut it out. Stop whining, things are changing, and for the better.
The command list is incomplete, because the PROGRAM is incomplete. Stop being an entitled child. You are having shit tailored to make it as easy as possible for you, but you're complaining that it isn't fully functional the entire time it's BEING MADE. Nut up, and wait until it's finished. You sound incredibly ungrateful.
http://www.computerlx.com/default.aspx
A terrible website, with some really amazing deals on pre-assemled computers. Some of them aren't logically sound though, so check http://www.logicalincrements.com/ to make sure the parts they put together make sense. This site was updated as of mid last month, so it's still really relevant.
You're mistaken, the hate is only given out to people who have put literally zero effort into figuring it out on their own. The site has a search function, many just choose not to use it. CJ clearly doesn't visit the forum often, or he would have known we have a bit of intolerance for selfish egotistical assholes.
Excuse me? Naive? You're trying to put something in the wrong place, how am I the naive one? You put that into the vanilla motd, in your server.properties.
http://code.google.com/p/midas-gold/
I'm fairly certain someone's posted a list (albeit it was some random user, and not anyone who can be trusted 100%), you can just put it into Midas.
Bukkit is on it's way out of popularity. You won't need it once ForgeEssentials gets their shit together. Once FE is stable, there will be absolutely zero reason to use Bukkit.
Not yet, as far as I understand. I'm not sure there's actual definitions in ForgeEssentials for mobs yet, so you can't tell them no block damage. :L
E: I'm actually looking into figuring out if you can set NPC's into a playergroup, and assign them permissions as you would to a player. Stay tuned.
Malicious code that only affects certain users, is still malicious code. No matter how small you consider it to be, it's code that intentionally does something bad.